Author: Barbara

  • Helping your partner understand

    Helping your partner understand

    “It’s not that we don’t get angry in marriage; it’s how we express it that counts”. — John Gottman. I just finished reading an article from the John Gottman Institute about working through misunderstandings.  So frustrating!!  And even worse is when it’s in the middle of arguing.   We jump right into getting defensive, criticizing our… Read more